‘You have already a child’, ‘Why are you still sad? Your pregnancy only ended after 12 weeks’, ‘You are young, you can have another one’ are common phrases that often show helplessness. Sometimes it is more helpful to say ‘I don’t have any words.’ Families with stillborn babies know what it feels like to be excluded, to lose friends, to quit or lose their jobs. They know about the loud silence after birth and the loud silence mentioning to others what happened. This work takes place in Germany, but families all over the world are affected. Some couples separate. Others give birth to another child. Some are not able to, mentally or physically. There are still many challenges communities need to speak about. Fortunately, there is also support available.